During the summer the kids have a different custody schedule than they do during the school year. Beginning last year, when Bela was five and Griff was nine, they spend a week at each house, switching on Friday afternoons.
So besides planning my work schedule around field trips & class parties, stocking up on Scholastic books & swimsuits, and arranging for summer camp & sleepovers, I am thinking about how to survive my part-time empty nest.
I think I've got some pretty good ideas, including...
- a stack of summer reading
- surprise re-do's of Griffin & Bela's bedrooms
- prepping our house for sale
- lots of time with my lovey
- a Happier-at-Home happiness project
- and DIYs galore {in fact, this weekend I plan to get out my gold leaf rub 'n buff for the fabulous Darlene's first-ever link party!}
Yes, divorce sucks. But so do lots of things beyond our control, even some of them very good, positive things. It all depends on your perspective. And we get a choice in how we see the world. I'll be trying to remember to make my choice rosy this summer.
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excellent blog!
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